Supporting your Loved Ones

When someone is contemplating suicide, they may show changes in the way they act, think, or behave.

People contemplating suicide may do the following:

  •  Looking for ways to end their lives, including searching online for possible methods 

  • Withdrawing from activities,

  • Isolating themselves from family, friends, and loved ones 

  • Sleeping too much or too little 

  • Saying goodbye to others 

  • Giving away valued possessions 

  • Threatening to hurt or kill oneself or talking about wanting to hurt or kill oneself

  • Feeling hopeless  

  • Feeling rage or uncontrolled anger or seeking revenge 

  • Acting recklessly or engaging in risky activities - seemingly without thinking

  • Feeling trapped - like there's no way out 

  • Increasing alcohol or drug use 

  • Experiencing dramatic mood changes

  • Becoming aggressive  

  • Seeing no reason for living or having no sense of purpose in life  

Someone with suicidal thoughts may talk about: 

  • Ending their life 

  • Feeling hopeless 

  • Having no reason to live 

  • Being a burden to others 

  • Feeling trapped 

  • Unbearable pain (physical or emotional) 

  • Death, dying, or suicide when these actions are out of the ordinary for the person 

Tips for starting a conversation: 

  • Listen with empathy and without judgment. 

  • Ask how you can help. 

  • Keep it casual.  

  • Let them open up at their pace. 

  • Do not keep suicide a secret. Let the person know that you can help, but need to involve a trusted adult. 

  • Encourage them to reach out for help.

  • Encourage them to use one of the suicide phone numbers if they need help.